Skip to content
DearestEllie — because their story is our legacy
AboutResourcesPrivacySign inStart an archive
HELP · TROUBLESHOOTING · 3 MIN

My upload won't finish

A photo or video that fails or hangs is almost always a connection issue, not a lost memory. Here's how to get it through.

Try this first

  1. Switch to wifi if you're on cellular data. Big videos over a spotty phone connection are the number-one cause of stuck uploads.
  2. Upload one file at a time, especially videos. A batch of forty photos usually sails through; a batch of three long videos often doesn't.
  3. Keep the page open until the upload says it's done. Phones in particular like to put browser tabs to sleep when you switch apps.
  4. If it failed partway, just try again. A failed upload leaves nothing broken behind — starting over is safe.
  5. If one specific file keeps failing, try a different one to check whether it's the file or the connection.

What's going on

Uploading sends the whole original file — and family videos can be enormous. The upload has to hold a connection the entire way, so a weak signal, a sleeping tab, or a browser running out of patience shows up as a hang or a failure. Nothing about your archive is at risk; the file simply hasn't arrived yet.

Common phone formats all work: the photos and videos your phone takes (JPEG, HEIC, PNG, MP4, MOV, and friends), plus ordinary audio recordings. If you're uploading something unusual — a scan from a very old device, a file a relative converted twice — and it won't go, that's worth writing to us about.

TIP

For a very large video: plug the phone in, get on wifi, upload that one file, and leave the phone alone until it finishes. Boring, but it works nearly every time.

If that didn't work

Write to us at [email protected] and tell us roughly what the file is (a 20-minute video from a 2015 camcorder, say) and what you saw. A person will read it and help you get the memory in.

RELATED
My video uploaded but won't playMy export, book, or tribute video is taking a long time

Still stuck? [email protected] — a person reads every message.

DearestEllie — because their story is our legacy

A private family memory archive — built to preserve love, and kept free for every family.

PRESERVE
Start an ArchiveGuides & PrintablesKeepsakes / PrintsTribute VideosGift an ArchivePreservationRestore an Export
THE SERVICE
How It's FundedFamily Memory FundStewardship / PricingHow It's RunProgramsImpact
TRUST
Our PromisePrivacy PolicyTerms of ServiceOpen Memory FormatGuiding PrinciplesAccessibility
ABOUT
About DearestEllieLeadershipWhat's NewEssaysHelp CenterCommunity PartnersPressMedia Kit
© 2026 DearestEllie · because their story is our legacy · An independent, supporter-funded serviceNo ads · No selling data · Export always free
DearestEllie is an independent service operated by Michael Davis in Wilmington, North Carolina. It is not a 501(c)(3) organization. Contact: [email protected]